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Monday, August 10, 2009
Manic Music Mondays
"There's this girl/boy I like, but he/she doesn't know I exist" to
"He/She is with someone else, but he/she should be with me" to
"I'm so in love with the person I'm with and can't live without him/her" to
"I used to love you, but now I hate you, but I still love you" to
"I'm totally over you, but I'm writing a song about you."
Take Taylor Swift, for instance. She always sings about the guy she can't have because he's with another girl. Well, hunny, obviously he's not going to leave her for you if he talks about how "he's so in love." And if he does, then what makes you think he won't do the same to you??
Have some respect for yourself. Show some independence. Find someone that actually wants you, not a sloppy second.
In her song Love Story, one of the verses reads
"Romeo save me, then try to tell me how to feel"
Umm...don't be so dependent on men, particularly ones that don't even realize you basically drool when they're in the room. And don't EVER let a man tell you what to do or how to feel! Think for yourself.
Another one of her songs that is very popular on the radio now You Belong With Me contains the lyrics
"Dreamin' about the day
When you wake up and find
What you're looking for has been here the whole time"
Really, if he hasn't seen it yet, why are you still bothering?? Don't waste your time. Why don't YOU wake up and move on to bigger and better things?
Lastly, there's a verse in Teardrops on My Guitar that bugs the crap out of me:
"I'll bet she's beautiful
That girl he talks about
And she's got everything
That I have to live without"
WHY ARE YOU COMPARING??!!
#1 I think Taylor Swift is very pretty. She has gorgeous hair and beautiful eyes. She shouldn't be concerned about her attractiveness.
#2 Why does she assume she will only be loved for her looks?
#3 If he doesn't see what a great person you are, then it's his loss. Forget him. He's not worth it and you deserve better!
Life should not revolve around a guy I really hate when straight female artists write songs and sing about how their world would be nothing without that guy and they can't live without him. Ugh, gag me. There's more to life, and I'm sure you can find something to live for.